Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because “that’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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    ALL information, except what you can hold in your brain, should be 100% public, with no limits on use.

    An unimaginable concept right now, but I think it is essential if we hope to ever trust each other and achieve global peace.

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    Suits are weird, they feel old and out dated, like cosplaying a 20th century business boy in grandpa’s pajamas. Multiple layered long sleeve shirt, jacket, and trousers doesn’t make sense for the majority of weather in most cities or even more if you’re inside temp controlled buildings more often. In the winter you want something heavier like denim or fleece lined or water resistant, and in the summer you want breathable fabric, wicking, single layer, shorts, etc. Overcoats don’t need backup jackets, and some of the people who did wear it like a uniform last century weren’t people you’d want to emulate.

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    People who believe in any religion are the same as dormant terrorist cells. One can have perfectly formal relationships with them on a daily basis, but given the right conditions, they become a huge, possibly lethal, risk.

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    I want to share my photos of our trip with you, but I don’t want you to upload them to Google, or apple, or amazon, or meta, or any social media.

    If it’s a pic of you, fine, do whatever you want. But please don’t take my whole album and store it in your google photos.

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    anything i know to be absolutely correct i will either not insert my opinion or i will take a shit on top of the hill so that nobody else tries to climb it

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    To secure your stuff. Hacking and social engineering are both easier than you think and identity theft is devastating. I know most people here already know that, but having worked in tech support, it’s unbelievably common to skip even the basics, not to mention my grandparents who think I’m just paranoid.

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      Even if you are paranoid it can happen to you

      Sadly, paying attention isn’t always enough…

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        Right, it could happen to anyone, but it’s still possible to lower the chance of that happening, or at least limit the damage when it does happen.

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    You can identify as whatever. But I’m dying on the hill that third grade English taught me that they/them was third-party possessive often reserved for multiple people. It’s fine if you want to use it for your pronouns. But doesn’t mean I’m grammatically fine with it.

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      While many people do say that to simplify, the singular they has been in use for centuries. If you see a person’s silhouette in the distance and you want to talk about something that they did you will you they/them pronouns for them in most dialects of English.

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    I ditched my smartphone over 5 years ago, and will NEVER go back. In fact, I don’t have a phone of any kind. They are surveillance/psyop devices, and they are turning people into biological robots. The scifi show Dollhouse is basically where this is all heading.

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    Using AI is amoral and I will never use it. As a programmer, every day it feels like I’m increasingly the minority.

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      I remember when I was a child and I first got experience with computers. I saw how file systems worked and thought to myself “wow I should structure my own mind this way so I can try to think as well as a computer can!”. I may have autism.

      AI is the exact opposite. Taking something beautiful, clear, clean, organized, efficient, definitive. And inserting all the messy, sloppy, uncertain, unreproducible aspect of our bloody electric meat brains. It’s a move in the opposite direction of where I think humanity should be going.

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        What if you use it to hack the pentagon, end the war, and put out coordinated social media campaigns to enable people younger than 60 to be elected into in congress?

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      don’t give up. you are not alone. patience is key and the time where deep understanding of technology will become essential again

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      Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Utilize the tools or you’ll end up unemployed.

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        In all honesty, I don’t think I could live with myself and, at least currently, think I’d rather find a new career path.

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          If you ever figure out what the path is let me know cuz any employable skills I have are going to be jobs affected by AI

          It ain’t trades because literally everyone is going to do that when AI kills all the other jobs

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      Most of them are also owned by a single company. Match Group inc. Some of the more notable ones are:

      • Her
      • Hinge
      • Match.com
      • OkCupid
      • Plenty of Fish
      • Tinder

      As well as most of the _ People Meet apps. Ie:

      • Black people meet
      • Democratic people meet
      • Republican people meet
      • Latino people meet
      • etc

      So it is no coincidence that these apps suck.

      Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group

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      The fact that you can filter by height but not weight says it all

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      The worst are the sites that just redirect you to the play/app store when visiting on mobile.
      I’m surely NOT installing your fucking app after you give me a bad experience (by not showing me the content I’ve received a link to) while I’m a “guest visitor” to your site.

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        I have my main phone browser set to automatically request the desktop version of whatever I visit, so I haven’t run into this. Does it happen a lot?

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      If someone is trying to sell me on a cafe or restaurant by saying, ‘Yeah, it’s kind of expensive, but there are great deals on the app…’ it’s no dice from me.

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      So real.

      If I hear “I’m sure meta is a good company that will treat your data respectfully.” one more time!

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    Taking a car for a 3km distance is unconscionable when walking or cycling are valid options.

    Driving less than the speed limit will not kill you.