I mean, its genuinely very helpful, especially early on in a project. But then there’s other hurdles and limited time and financial constraints and more immediate concerns, etc, etc.
I do find that people - ADHD and Neurotypical alike - use this mix of “Help me do it!” and “Stop giving me useless advice!” to goad people into doing work on their behalf. And then the “Fuck you for suggesting that!” tends to come when the person you’re badgering isn’t willing/able to keep carrying your load.
Actually i love mapping out plans and projects. Doing those things is a different matter entirely though 🫠
I mean, its genuinely very helpful, especially early on in a project. But then there’s other hurdles and limited time and financial constraints and more immediate concerns, etc, etc.
I do find that people - ADHD and Neurotypical alike - use this mix of “Help me do it!” and “Stop giving me useless advice!” to goad people into doing work on their behalf. And then the “Fuck you for suggesting that!” tends to come when the person you’re badgering isn’t willing/able to keep carrying your load.