• Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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      2 days ago

      Neither is your comment.

      Edit: It’s a complaint, not an action plan.

      Your addition of condescending “advice” misses the point while still not solving any of the actual underlying problems.

      • Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe
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        23 hours ago

        And repeating it doesn’t help anyone, it just gives us an excuse to not work on things.

        Again, something a psychologist will point out from the start.

        • Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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          18 hours ago

          repeating it doesn’t help anyone

          Again, the same can be said of your unsolicited and unhelpful “advice”

          Again, something a psychologist will point out from the start.

          Ditto.

          it just gives us an excuse to not work on things.

          Pointing out that the underlying cause of the trauma is societal gives us an excuse to not work on fixing ourselves to not be traumatized?

          Fuck right off with that victim blaming bullshit.

    • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      cbt doesn’t “fix” neurodivergence, not to mention this post is a complaint and not a request for help. read the room pls

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          21 hours ago

          thats the implication I got from it. you really don’t need to be condescendingly giving unwarranted therapy advice to people in a thread that is a simple complaint towards the state of the world.

          we know, its nice to just say it sometimes. read the room

    • panda_abyss@lemmy.ca
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      CBT is not a cure all solution that works for everyone. It did nothing for me.