repeating it doesn’t help anyone

Again, the same can be said of your unsolicited and unhelpful “advice”

Again, something a psychologist will point out from the start.

Ditto.

it just gives us an excuse to not work on things.

Pointing out that the underlying cause of the trauma is societal gives us an excuse to not work on fixing ourselves to not be traumatized?

Fuck right off with that victim blaming bullshit.