I’ve been seeing this more and more in comments, and it’s got me wondering just how big this issue really is. A lot of people feel trapped in apps like Discord, WhatsApp, and Instagram, but can’t get their friends to leave.

It’s really annoying when you suggest trying something new, whether it’s a different app or just not using these platforms so much but sometimes it can feel like no one wants to go first.

So I’m curious, what apps do you feel most trapped in? And have you tried convincing your friends to leave them? What happened? Is it an issue for you, or are you just going along with the flow?

Looking forward to hearing if this is as common as it feels!

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    1 day ago

    Matrix is the logical successor to discord.

    We should focus on improving it instead of making something new from scratch.

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      13 hours ago

      I’d love it if it actually worked… it doesn’t.

      It’s extremely buggy. I’d rather use IRC, but the features it lacks isn’t ok for most people these days.

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        I wouldn’t say Matrix needs 1:1 feature parity with Discord in order to be a viable alternative for a lot of users.

        My social circle doesn’t typically use the entire suite of features in Discord. Text chat, voice chat, video calling, file sharing, and screen sharing cover our usual needs.

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      Only if the people behind Matrix just copied the Discord UX exactly instead of making weird choices nobody can understand

      We need a “server” with multiple channels that are easily discoverable for everyone on said server. We also need to be able to gate channels behind roles.

      Can it do that?

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        1 day ago

        Pretty sure you could do all that on matrix in 2023, maybe not the gated roles, but you can just make a subgroupchat

        you can even this on telegram to an extent

        discord delenda est

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          Please tell me how, I’ve been in some actual large communities on Matrix who haven’t managed it because the support for spaces(?) is so flaky