I’ve been seeing this more and more in comments, and it’s got me wondering just how big this issue really is. A lot of people feel trapped in apps like Discord, WhatsApp, and Instagram, but can’t get their friends to leave.

It’s really annoying when you suggest trying something new, whether it’s a different app or just not using these platforms so much but sometimes it can feel like no one wants to go first.

So I’m curious, what apps do you feel most trapped in? And have you tried convincing your friends to leave them? What happened? Is it an issue for you, or are you just going along with the flow?

Looking forward to hearing if this is as common as it feels!

  • lepinkainen@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Only if the people behind Matrix just copied the Discord UX exactly instead of making weird choices nobody can understand

    We need a “server” with multiple channels that are easily discoverable for everyone on said server. We also need to be able to gate channels behind roles.

    Can it do that?

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      1 day ago

      Pretty sure you could do all that on matrix in 2023, maybe not the gated roles, but you can just make a subgroupchat

      you can even this on telegram to an extent

      discord delenda est

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        1 day ago

        Please tell me how, I’ve been in some actual large communities on Matrix who haven’t managed it because the support for spaces(?) is so flaky