• captainlezbian@lemmy.worldEnglish
    5·
    2 days ago

    Black jacket, black eyeshadow, black lipstick, 6" heeled boots, and a cocky attitude. Unfortunately while it does attract women like crazy, it won’t help you find dominant women in my experience. That’s not to say they aren’t interested, it’s just you’ll have to keep saying that’s what you want

  • j4k3@lemmy.worldEnglish
    55·
    3 days ago

    Whatever gives ya the confidence, go for it.

    They used to say humans establish DTF in the first 10 seconds of introductions. That fits with all my long term relationships. I’m probably just a slut, but I’d follow most instructions from anyone daring enough to give them.

    • grrgyle@slrpnk.netEnglish
      18·
      3 days ago

      This is the way, but I’m demi so in my case it’s DT have a long heartfelt conversation, make plans together, form mutual respect, and then fuck.

      I’ll admit it’s does sound like more work when I spell it all out.

      • RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        11·
        3 days ago

        I’ve found I have little self control and have ended up fucking a bunch of friends post hormone transition. Glad my partner loves it cuz apparently I’m one of the worst out there.

        Only a matter of time until I work up the nerve for content creation.

          • RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            11·
            3 days ago

            I’m pretty involved in my personal community and when people found out I was on the market AND leaving… There were a surprising amount of applications. 😅🫣

            I’m really not used to it. I forget how I look and it catches me off guard every time I walk by a reflection. Not trying to be vein it’s just my internal self image doesn’t match again, but in a good way? Idk.

            • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPMEnglish
              12·
              3 days ago

              That’s awesome. I’m not super gorgeous, but I often do a double take when catching a glimpse of my reflection too. My internal image isn’t as cute as the person I see (≧ω≦)

  • jawa21@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
    38·
    3 days ago

    I just wish full goth wasn’t so expensive and time consuming. Not to mention cold. Skirts and fishnets don’t work well in winter.