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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Also, idk, I think that what an ape thinks looks good has little bearing on what avians find attractive. For all we know male ducks think that bright plumage is unattractive.

    Like for real, would parrots looking at us understand what we see in permanent large breasts? Or would they look at our other comically oversized sex characteristic (large, exposed penises without a baculum) as the primary showy mating display. Or would they see us as a species where sexual selection has resulted in both parties having a display to show off? Would they think that from their perspective it’s obvious which looks better?



  • As a lesbian I’ve definitely seen plenty of gay interactions that are so gendered that I feel most people of the other gender wouldn’t be comfortable participating, especially conservative straight people. It’s really funny to me how this stereotype of gay people as less gender conforming (while it absolutely carries a lot of truth to it) results in people not even considering that sometimes gay sex is just two really masculine men going at it in a manly way or two women being extremely feminine together.








  • Ok but as someone who has adhd: sleep, exercise, and diet are huge. They’re just also difficult goals you have to push towards.

    Different stages of dysfunction require different advice. Someone who is deep in it needs advice like “when absolutely necessary you can use an anxiety spiral to get adrenaline to break free from executive dysfunction”. Meanwhile someone who can’t seem to get any further than daily struggling and doing things at the last moment may need to hear that they might be better at doing what needs done if they put some of their efforts towards exercise and eating better.