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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • When everyone is too invested in everyone to the point where it’s clear they don’t have much life outside the polycule. When one member of the polycule is clearly in charge of it or is taking a significantly disproportionate amount of the time/energy/effort. When it’s clear that individual relationships within the polycule are expected to take a backseat to the group relationship. When there’s backstabbing, gossiping, or anything similar within the polycule. When metamours intrude on conflict between partners. I’m sure there’s more.

    These types of polycule are unfortunately not super uncommon. Internet rationalists imo are the worst for it, but they’re by no means the only ones doing it. In general just watch out for relationships that look/feel more like a commune/cult than they’re upfront about being and make sure that if you do enter a more communal relationship dynamic that they’re keeping safeguards to make leaving accessible for anyone who wants to.









  • In part because they understand that investment works, but not why. I could be much poorer if I didn’t understand that the purpose of investment is to provide money to create value to get more money later. NFTs failed the “where does the money come from” test as well as the “why am I not too late to make a bunch of money” test.

    Nobody’s out there offering guaranteed massive returns to everyone who invests. Legitimate safe investments don’t try to be exciting or induce fomo. They’re boring and reasonable because they can afford to be.




  • Yeah, it was especially bad when it was pre-made like that. Every bar where I live sells energy drinks and they’ll mix it with booze for you. But you have to make that decision in the moment as opposed to buying 12 4lokos instead of beers and now every drink you have wires you up more.

    As someone who has to wake up early most days I appreciate the ability to have an energy drink at a bar on a Friday night, but I’m sympathetic to the ban on alcoholic energy drinks