As a parent I really don’t get this. Me and my daughter do the same and I ask her if she’s leaving the best for last.

Really strange not to see this.

I have to think of ‘don’t look up’ now.

Oh I wasn’t talking about self harming patterns. It’s the neurotypical harming us/me routinely.

(without evil intent but just as a result of the 99% vs 1% behavior, so it’s just normal)

Some of us are just out of luck, there’s literally nothing.

I’m sorry to hear that for australia.

Thanks, however I was shit-answering but that got me to thinking… It absolutely depends.

I was kinda shit-answering but good answer!

However I am afraid neurodivergence actually makes a difference as we re-experience our pains constantly.

What’s the difference?

99% my partner does this. I’m sorry, but can’t. I look up other ways: mail, web forms, whatever.

The rare case I suffer through it.

Thank you, that must be one of the kindest things addressed at me on the internet.

True, I feel caught. And it got me thinking. Maybe age and experience is also an influence there.

So picture me as friendly and nice slightly odd teenager. Then noticing evil reactions behind my back and sabotage, because of behavioral differences. This of course leads to judgment and resentment because it was done to me all my life. It’s human, also a protection mechanism.

It’s good to point out, however there’s no easy fix. It’s just how humans are in cause effect and keeping grudges.

So in a way I am caught in a permanent loop of getting harmed, protecting myself, being an ass, healing and it starts again.

It makes me resent humanity, sadly. But thst just seems part of the perks I involuntarily got.

These universalizations are the main reason I keep it to myself and mask in OPs picture.

It’s different for everyone. You could also generalize that non autists oh well they also have all the issues autists have… And they do.

But it’s different. Only people never having experienced a painful generalization like this can make such a statement.

I am on pain medication because of neurological disorders. ‘oh yeah I am often in pain, too’…

Tell me the tests are not considering masking capability… 😁🙄

I use airthings Wave plus, but they’re for inside and you need btproxy/esphome (cheap and well supported) for the connection

Why should he go to a place for the rabble?

Other than stimming and finding relaxation techniques that work for you I am also hoping this thread will provide helpful answers for me to use.

Is it? With many of LadyButterflies posts I agree. But the executive dysfunction on pending tasks is unreal and I am Autist, I don’t have adhd.

(honestly curious since I only know one side)

Not sure who you’re referring to but I agree and haven’t bought from ea, ubi and others in many years. It’s their loss, not mine.

Also I’ve been gone from reddit in years.

But the masses are so slow.

Do you think resuscitating him would go well (it mostly doesn’t anyway)? So don’t dismiss that option.

‘pizza time’! (sample from… The arcade I think?)

Don’s is the worst though.