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Cake day: July 27th, 2023

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  • Whenever I get back on my feet life seems to kick me down again. I never am good at saving, but every time I start to get my debt under control,pay off a loan or something, something else hits me that i need to take out another loan for, or i lose my job and have to struggle to pay the bills for a few months while racking up credit card debt. The house I moved to 3 years ago was the single worst financial decision I ever made, and I wound up having a day 1 plumbing emergency (6k), replacing the roof and all the windows (30k each), replacing the dish washer, clothes washer, and dryer (another 6k), having the sewer line collapse for 12k, finding out all the electrical outlets used aluminum wiring and were sparking during the winter when it got cold so another 7k, the finished basement started flooding and to get it waterproofed they had to rip out the finishing and that cost 7k to do, and the repairs to put it all back will be another 7k after I pay off this other loan I’m close to paying off. That’s just the past 3 years but my life has been a Neverending series of crap like this.













  • I have both and the top two are constantly at war in my body. ADHD screams we’re bored, we should go out to a movie, grab a bite to eat, hang out at the mall, my Autism is like fuck no I wanna stay home under the covers and play Binding of Isaac.

    When autism wins out ADHD is like, yeah but you suck at Binding of Isaac why don’t you try something new and then I spend 2 hours scrolling my library trying to pick a new game instead of playing.

    But if the ADHD wins out over the autism I’ll go a place and get overstimulated and when I come back I’ll either have a migraine, go into an autism nap for several hours, or just the burnt out and unable to focus for 2 days.

    Having both sucks