Today, we want to inform everyone that we have decided to defederate from
https://exploding-heads.com/ [https://exploding-heads.com/]. We understand that
defederating should always be a last resort, and individuals can certainly block
communities. However, blocking alone does not prevent potential harm to
vulnerable communities. After carefully reviewing the instance, reported posts,
and multiple comments from the community, we have concluded that exploding-heads
is not adhering to the Lemmy or Citizen Code of Conduct. Therefore, we cannot,
in good faith, continue to federate with an instance that consistently promotes
hate, racism, and bullying. Examples:
https://lemmy.world/post/577526 [https://lemmy.world/post/577526] - Community
Moderator Harassment
https://exploding-heads.com/post/92194 [https://exploding-heads.com/post/92194]
- Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/90780 [https://exploding-heads.com/post/90780]
- Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/91488 [https://exploding-heads.com/post/91488]
- Systemadmin Post
https://exploding-heads.com/post/93725 [https://exploding-heads.com/post/93725]
- Community Moderator Post Again, deciding to defederate from an instance is not
taken lightly. In the future, we will continue to review instances on a
case-by-case bases. As for our community, please refrain from posting or
commenting with hateful words as well. Arguing back and calling people names is
not the solution. The best course of action is to report the posts or comments
violating our server rules. Lemmy Code of Conduct
https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html
[https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html]
Citizen Code of Conduct
https://github.com/stumpsyn/policies/blob/master/citizen_code_of_conduct.md
[https://github.com/stumpsyn/policies/blob/master/citizen_code_of_conduct.md]
“We are committed to providing a friendly, safe, and welcoming environment for
all, regardless of level of experience, gender identity and expression, sexual
orientation, disability, personal appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, age,
religion, nationality, or other similar characteristic.”
Of the examples they gave I really think only Fisuxcel’s tranny faggot comment was ban worthy. And even then he’s not even a admin here and lemmy world could have just deleted his community.
I suggest in the future admin’s keep their edgy content on alt accounts and in communities that pussy instances can just block.
In this way federation may work a little better.
On the one hand, fuck lemmy world. On the other hand, instances defederating hurts everyone so I do think it is our responsibility to work with them a little bit if they can be reasonable about it.
I take full responsibility for my Biden Pedo post which was featured. Biden is a Pedo but it was animated and perhaps I could have tagged it nsfw.
Nothing wrong with being gay! Being racists, bigots and homophobes on the other hand… But keep showing your true colors and then wonder why every instance with admins with half a brain are defederating from you. https://fba.ryona.agency/?domain=exploding-heads.com
Hihi if you react like this to someone calling something gay you must be a fat loser in real life. I bet you cant handle even the slightest of problems 🤗
I have all of those things and more - like health insurance - here in “commie” Europe! What kind of comeback is that lmao. Oh wow he has a job. You know what, tell those people at your ‘job’ that you’re on this website and see how long you still have it.
Also pretty telling that even in your own bubble you guys can’t seem to get a single post above 20 votes. But sure keep your eyes closed, reality is a scary place.
I don’t have any problem with gays you guys are just to sensitive. It’s when you dangle butt plugs in front of children we tend to get mad. You are not special for liking pp in your bhole.
Also I think admins keeping their extreme views in places other’s can easily block out is a very polite thing to do I don’t know what you are complaining about.
Dessalines of at lemmy.ml keeps all his genocide denying post in a alt at lemmygrad.
Your entire reply shows how you think about gays lol. It’s only the “sexual” stuff - not just love between two people who happen to be men. Buttplugs can be used in heterosexual relationships too @maga_force@exploding-heads.com. Maybe some day you’ll learn there’s more than missionary.
I learned there is more than just missionary when i fist fucked my coworkers girlfriend at the age of 18, not my fault he had a little dick and big daddy wiggle is packing
Just saying that she was a blonde with nice tits, skinny waste and a juicy ass, but her head looked like something out of a Charlie Brown fucking cartoon (big ugly head) . I fucked the shit out of her nutted on her titties then fist fucked her pussy till she squirted uncontrollably all up and down my forearm. Anyway, I’m a freak.
Actually once you understand women, it’s really not that hard. After I left my ex-wife, I kind of went on a fuck spree, I even dated a stripper but dumped her when she started getting too handsy with my money, but ill spare you my sexual conquests
I never brought up children. Notice how you bringing up “protect the children” is a method of concern trolling. As if the other side you are discussing with does not care about children or have morals. That’s why you guys should be defederated and ignored.
Fyi in my day when we said something was gay in that manner it meant it was lame, dumb, retarded, stupid, irrelevant, ridiculous not sexual in the sense
Yes being born in the eighties, it was like that back in my day too. But than you meet people who are gay, who are good normal people trying to simply fucking exist and are hurt when you use that word negatively. Then you realize that’s not right and that shouldn’t be used as a slur. Same with calling someone “retarded”.
The use or definition of words can change over time.
I understand your argument, but it seems like in my opinion that the woke left has an ever-changing spectrum of what is and isn’t acceptable and personally I’m tired of playing along. I am hosting this community as a free speech, absolutism community where people can say impose, whatever they want without fear of being exiled or banned unless it violates the patriot act which has specifically a list of what is and is not acceptable for online speech. Also, I try to uphold my other administrators rules as well. I would advise you to block this community if you do not like the Content in it or are someone who is easily offended (no insult intended) if you need assistance using the block feature, I am always happy to help
Ever changing spectrum of what isn’t and is acceptable? Yes, you probably wish you could go back to the times when it was cool to call black people the n-word and they would high five you. “Personally I’m tired to be responsible for my actions and thoughtful for my fellow humans.”
And then “why did everyone defederate with us? don’t they like free speech?”
I know how to block instances. I have a clean account on other instances, don’t worry. I’m here like I would visit a zoo.
Im against racism of that sort, I could tell you a personal story about how the KKK handed flyers for some sort of event around my town when I was a kid during the 90s and how it caused a lot of hurt amongst the community but I’ll spare you the drama. And as far as Black people go, I have many black friends and I used to be in an all black rap group as the only white member and my ex wife was hatian. Also, I would like to note that I drive trucks for a living and that there was a guy from Africa who was not getting many hours but was a great guy, so I personally invited him onto my truck to work as my helper, and now he is doing great getting lots of hours And able to put food on the table for himself and his wife and young child.
Pressing X for doubt on this whole reply. So you’re against racism of “that sort” but pretty easy-going on the other sort. You know, the good kind of racism. Explain the good kind of racism so I can better understand?
But I bet it took a look of character not to join the KKK. I mean that’s where every normal person would draw the line and say “no that’s too far, those kkk guys seem a bit racist”.
Also, that you found the time to be so generous towards black people in between fucking all those blondes is heartwarming. You truly are the admin they deserve here.
But yes they are kinda gay for doing this
Nothing wrong with being gay! Being racists, bigots and homophobes on the other hand… But keep showing your true colors and then wonder why every instance with admins with half a brain are defederating from you. https://fba.ryona.agency/?domain=exploding-heads.com
And @maga_force@exploding-heads.com your retort to “better keep our real nasty shit on alt accounts” is chefs kiss
Hihi if you react like this to someone calling something gay you must be a fat loser in real life. I bet you cant handle even the slightest of problems 🤗
I see I forgot to add “fat shamer” to the list. You probably go through life wondering why everyone hates you when you don’t “even do anything wrong”.
Fat shame vs what, what lizzo does promoting an unhealthy lifestyle of being morbidly obese snd doing nothing About it?
lol who fucking cares about lizzo. american much?
Born in New England, just outside of Boston, so naturally I’m an asshole lol
It always irks you people really bad when someone has a job and a good life. Newsflash: Life isnt a Disney movie. Karma doesnt exist. 🤗
I have all of those things and more - like health insurance - here in “commie” Europe! What kind of comeback is that lmao. Oh wow he has a job. You know what, tell those people at your ‘job’ that you’re on this website and see how long you still have it.
Also pretty telling that even in your own bubble you guys can’t seem to get a single post above 20 votes. But sure keep your eyes closed, reality is a scary place.
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TLDR
TLDR: Sucks to Suck. There you go
If you reply to others like that without consequence, no wonder this instance gets defederated by everyone.
I don’t have any problem with gays you guys are just to sensitive. It’s when you dangle butt plugs in front of children we tend to get mad. You are not special for liking pp in your bhole.
Also I think admins keeping their extreme views in places other’s can easily block out is a very polite thing to do I don’t know what you are complaining about.
Dessalines of at lemmy.ml keeps all his genocide denying post in a alt at lemmygrad.
Places like exploding-heads, spot on!
Your entire reply shows how you think about gays lol. It’s only the “sexual” stuff - not just love between two people who happen to be men. Buttplugs can be used in heterosexual relationships too @maga_force@exploding-heads.com. Maybe some day you’ll learn there’s more than missionary.
I learned there is more than just missionary when i fist fucked my coworkers girlfriend at the age of 18, not my fault he had a little dick and big daddy wiggle is packing
Cringe
Just saying that she was a blonde with nice tits, skinny waste and a juicy ass, but her head looked like something out of a Charlie Brown fucking cartoon (big ugly head) . I fucked the shit out of her nutted on her titties then fist fucked her pussy till she squirted uncontrollably all up and down my forearm. Anyway, I’m a freak.
Yes because it’s sooo hard to pick up girls and get laid.
Actually once you understand women, it’s really not that hard. After I left my ex-wife, I kind of went on a fuck spree, I even dated a stripper but dumped her when she started getting too handsy with my money, but ill spare you my sexual conquests
Notice I said children. If you are suggesting pedophilia is ok You need to be banned.
I never brought up children. Notice how you bringing up “protect the children” is a method of concern trolling. As if the other side you are discussing with does not care about children or have morals. That’s why you guys should be defederated and ignored.
Sounds like pedo dog whilstling
When has this ever happened?
Mostly at “family friendly pride shows”. But a couple times at schools https://twitter.com/libsoftiktok/status/1669469433025159169?s=20
Every group is going to have people who are inappropriate or take things too far. You can’t magnify those individuals
Why?
Do you want to be lumped in with the worst members of any group you belong to?
Oh like Trump supporters?
libsoftiktok that seems like a totally trustful and unbiased source. thanks mister magafarce
SHOW ME EVIDENCE!
here is evidence.
NOT THAT EVIDENCE!
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Fyi in my day when we said something was gay in that manner it meant it was lame, dumb, retarded, stupid, irrelevant, ridiculous not sexual in the sense
Yes being born in the eighties, it was like that back in my day too. But than you meet people who are gay, who are good normal people trying to simply fucking exist and are hurt when you use that word negatively. Then you realize that’s not right and that shouldn’t be used as a slur. Same with calling someone “retarded”.
The use or definition of words can change over time.
I understand your argument, but it seems like in my opinion that the woke left has an ever-changing spectrum of what is and isn’t acceptable and personally I’m tired of playing along. I am hosting this community as a free speech, absolutism community where people can say impose, whatever they want without fear of being exiled or banned unless it violates the patriot act which has specifically a list of what is and is not acceptable for online speech. Also, I try to uphold my other administrators rules as well. I would advise you to block this community if you do not like the Content in it or are someone who is easily offended (no insult intended) if you need assistance using the block feature, I am always happy to help
Ever changing spectrum of what isn’t and is acceptable? Yes, you probably wish you could go back to the times when it was cool to call black people the n-word and they would high five you. “Personally I’m tired to be responsible for my actions and thoughtful for my fellow humans.”
And then “why did everyone defederate with us? don’t they like free speech?”
I know how to block instances. I have a clean account on other instances, don’t worry. I’m here like I would visit a zoo.
Im against racism of that sort, I could tell you a personal story about how the KKK handed flyers for some sort of event around my town when I was a kid during the 90s and how it caused a lot of hurt amongst the community but I’ll spare you the drama. And as far as Black people go, I have many black friends and I used to be in an all black rap group as the only white member and my ex wife was hatian. Also, I would like to note that I drive trucks for a living and that there was a guy from Africa who was not getting many hours but was a great guy, so I personally invited him onto my truck to work as my helper, and now he is doing great getting lots of hours And able to put food on the table for himself and his wife and young child.
Pressing X for doubt on this whole reply. So you’re against racism of “that sort” but pretty easy-going on the other sort. You know, the good kind of racism. Explain the good kind of racism so I can better understand?
But I bet it took a look of character not to join the KKK. I mean that’s where every normal person would draw the line and say “no that’s too far, those kkk guys seem a bit racist”.
Also, that you found the time to be so generous towards black people in between fucking all those blondes is heartwarming. You truly are the admin they deserve here.
Oh fuck off, I personally don’t give a fuck what you think, you know you’re twisting my words and being a Cunt about it