Hi, since I’ve started using Lemmy, I’ve been running into the same people and having something approaching a relationship with them–even if it’s mostly imaginary.

It got me to wondering if there’s a community or form of community available on the internet that I haven’t tried yet that might actually lead to something approaching having friends.

So far Discord has been extremely meh; but I’ve heard of Mastodon and Peertube and Matrix and all kinds of weird stuff that is outside the mainstream.

Anyone have better success with different protocols?

  • acockworkorange@mander.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    5 days ago

    I agree re: Mastodon. It does allow you to follow people, which Lemmy lacks. But I’ve made deeper* connections here then there.

    *still quite shallow, but I know a bit of their personal life, while in mastodon, not.

    I think getting to know people requires unstructured chat and some sense of privacy (or at least not metaphorically shouting from the rooftops).

      • acockworkorange@mander.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        5 days ago

        Not sure, but I’m game. You can never have too many friends and I certainly could use one. I remember us talking about jobs, friendship and diagnosis.

        The note feature of Voyager is on the client, so it doesn’t get syncd with other interfaces.