• richmondez@lemdro.id
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    1 day ago

    People like that aren’t asking for advice, they have already decided and want validation/permission for the choice they already made.

    • Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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      16 hours ago

      You’re absolutely right. I didn’t have that kind of insight at 19, but I’ve learned to recognize people like that in the years since. Which is great, because I definitely don’t have the patience for that nonsense anymore.