What is moral for you, what is you ethos based on, if not on a feeling of wrong and right?

There is a difference between having a sense of justice and wanting a feeling of vengance.

You are, people will even listen if you’re not only always being loudly.

When you’re in a loud room, you must shout to be heard. And if you’re gagged in a loud room, nobody is hearing you regardless of your speaking savvy.