• TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I figure this was supposed to just be gay, but I can’t help seeing the second one as selfcest

    Edit: Also, I’m not sure this is the right community for this comic. This feels more like a masc perspective post than a fem perspective one, and that isn’t what this place is about. Femcelmemes isn’t for memes about feminine people, but for memes by feminine people. This doesn’t really feel like that

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      2 days ago

      Exactly a selfcest ^<^

      Its about dreaming about a guy but he is narcissistic asf. I may delete here and post at another community

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        Also, even feminine perspective memes about men, masc presenting people, or male/female gender relations can kinda open up a can of worms. While such memes will always be allowed, they do often attract attention from the broader fediverse. Whenever a point is made about men, there are always several different comments saying “not all men,” and while that is often a technically valid point, it’s also rarely the intention of the meme.

        Basically, this post had a number of things that gave me pause, but I wouldn’t remove it. I do like your comics generally and hope you keep posting here.

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          Understandable, but I just thought it was a meme. No need to overthink it and make a mountain out of a molehill

          I definitely will post more of them ;>

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            They are just memes, but other people make it a bigger thing than it needs to be. A number of my recent posts in 196 received way more attention and scrutiny than I expected. I never meant the memes to be that deep, but that wasn’t something I could control