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  • obviously no i wouldnt question nonbinary folks in the same way, nor gender fluid folks nor agender folks nor any other gender identity. are you saying being a sissy or crossdresser is a gender identity in itself? that really isnt how its been presented by them since they often identify as men. its presented as only a fetish, which isnt the same as gender identity at all, any more than being a sub, dom, or cuck is. it evokes the fetishization of trans women and plays into it, which makes me kind of uncomfortable because i dont really want to be fetishized.

    i can feel this turning into a shit throwing semantic argument where we talk past each other and get nowhere. at the end of the day i dont understand sissies and crossdressers, so unless you want to explain their feelings to me i would prefer not to be attacked.


  • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneExplainer rule
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    19 hours ago

    i have trouble understanding sissies and cross dressers. on the one hand i get it, my first experiences of gender euphoria turned me on in a big way. but on the other hand that mostly went away the more feminine ive become and the more often ive felt gender euphoria. it feels normal and right to be femme all the time, so it really doesnt turn me on by itself anymore. is it really just a fetish for them, or are they trans femmes who cant fully acknowledge their gender to themselves?

    it feels like theres something deeper going on with them but im not in their head, and i suspect if there is theres a component of denial that would make it hard to figure out as an outsider.





  • they’re the sexy bunny girls, depicted in the game as being all female. the game doesn’t specify the gender of any of the characters though, so their genders are all indeterminate. the humes (games word for humans) are all depicted as kind of masculine, other than one or two special characters, and the viera are all depicted as feminine. the moogles (little people like the one talking), bangaa (lizard (nonpejorative) people), and nu mou (round people) dont have a clear gender expression one way or the other.

    one could infer that all the races have achieved a perfect lack of sexual dimorphism, implying the existence of both male and female viera. but thats less fun than a whole species of sexy bunny girls. i choose to believe theyre half trans women and half cis women, which allows them to reproduce, and theres no males at all. you may choose to die on this hill or a variation of it.






  • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoScience Memes@mander.xyzWho is he?
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    3 days ago

    im guessing he also has some degree of androgen insensitivity. having crazy high testosterone youd expect large muscles, lots of facial hair, male pattern baldness, a low voice, but hes not that big, has at least thin facial hair that he shaves, a full head of hair, and a relatively high voice. idk if any version of androgen insensitivity is associated with very high testosterone levels but i wouldn’t be surprised.






  • thats stupid in so many ways. nevermind the mountain of evidence that we evolved on this planet, two people cannot found a stable population. their children would be fine, but after that they’re speed running inbreeding. it would only take a few generations for all kinds of genetic problems to start coming up and they would only get worse.





  • same for me. sound is the worst. my neighbor likes to fall asleep to the tv so its just on like all fucking night. its not loud at all, but when theres people speaking i can hear the muffled base of their voice and nothing else. i have no idea what they’re saying but the cadence is so clearly human speech its impossible for my brain to ignore. there was a few months where i could barely sleep before i started wearing ear plugs at night.

    i did talk to him about it eventually but after a while he went back to playing the tv at all hours. its such a minor sound its hard to describe to people how it could drive me so crazy so ive just resigned to sleeping with ear plugs forever. helps to tune out my cats having zoomies and yelling too.