Well, aro ace doesn’t mean no love and no sex inherently. It just means no romantic attraction and no sexual attraction.
Neither of those things mean not having loving relationships (or sex for other reasons). Of course, one or many can also be romantically or sexually repulsed and that would mean not wanting those things, it just depends.
I spend most (but far from all) of my time on the computer, relate to many of the memes, sometimes lose entire days doomscrolling on tumblr and probably couldn’t keep a job if I didn’t work from home, often in pyjamas
This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of “femcel.” It’s far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.
Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we’d lose a lot of important users.
how does an aroace femcel work
Well, aro ace doesn’t mean no love and no sex inherently. It just means no romantic attraction and no sexual attraction.
Neither of those things mean not having loving relationships (or sex for other reasons). Of course, one or many can also be romantically or sexually repulsed and that would mean not wanting those things, it just depends.
If aroaces don’t want love nor sex, but a femcel is someone who want those. These titles are rather clashing, don’t you think?
Well, no, because love is not the same as romance. Aros can still love and be loved, just not want romance.
If they don’t want romance or sex, perhaps. But that’s down to each individual aro- and/or ace- spec person. It’s not a given.
The definitions only say romance.
[Confused] Definitions of what?
Definition of a femcel.
That’s not what you posted here: https://lem.lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/42989894/20595208?scrollToComments=true
… I don’t get it, you just linked to my post?
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I spend most (but far from all) of my time on the computer, relate to many of the memes, sometimes lose entire days doomscrolling on tumblr and probably couldn’t keep a job if I didn’t work from home, often in pyjamas
I think this… isn’t a femcel’s definition.
This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of “femcel.” It’s far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.
Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we’d lose a lot of important users.
Cool, Guess I’m just here for the memes then
Got it.