Levels for it because yes:

  • 0-5: Not There Yet
  • 6-10: Somehow There
  • 11-15: Moderate, Welcome To The Group
  • 16-20: Almost There
  • 21-24: Come On!
  • 25: True Femcel
  • Delilah (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 小时前

    I spend most (but far from all) of my time on the computer, relate to many of the memes, sometimes lose entire days doomscrolling on tumblr and probably couldn’t keep a job if I didn’t work from home, often in pyjamas

    • MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.worldOP
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      9 小时前

      I think this… isn’t a femcel’s definition.

      A femcel is a woman who identifies as involuntarily celibate, feeling unable to form romantic or sexual relationships despite wanting to.

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 小时前

        This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of “femcel.” It’s far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.

        Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we’d lose a lot of important users.