LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Autism@lemmy.worldEnglish · 4 days agoIs this you?piefed.cdn.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square74fedilinkarrow-up1529arrow-down17
arrow-up1522arrow-down1imageIs this you?piefed.cdn.blahaj.zoneLadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Autism@lemmy.worldEnglish · 4 days agomessage-square74fedilink
minus-square🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up62arrow-down1·4 days agoKinda why I thought I might be a sociopath. I don’t ask things like that because I genuinely do not care.
minus-squareshaoiken@feddit.orglinkfedilinkarrow-up31·4 days agoIn my experience most neurotypicals don’t as well and it’s just some kind of ritual. Most of the time I just try to copy what the other person is doing to not be awkward and get on with it.
minus-squareSwaus01@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·4 days agoI care, but i’m only going to ask someone how they are if they’re visivly upset, or visibky happy/excited, or otherwise they will share with me first.
Kinda why I thought I might be a sociopath. I don’t ask things like that because I genuinely do not care.
In my experience most neurotypicals don’t as well and it’s just some kind of ritual. Most of the time I just try to copy what the other person is doing to not be awkward and get on with it.
I care, but i’m only going to ask someone how they are if they’re visivly upset, or visibky happy/excited, or otherwise they will share with me first.