I’m already 35, and I don’t think I could get anything at this age, especially in an area with almost no third places, almost nonexistent mental health system, etc.

Yes I know, friends do exist, but it’s just not the same (unless you happen to regularly have sex, cuddle, etc. with your friends).

  • bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works
    31·
    19 days ago

    Sounds like you hate where you live.

    If you have money and aren’t ugly, move. Even if you are ugly, start going to the gym anyway.

    Also try this. Pretend you already do have someone and any person you see is just a person. If you do this and stop chasing after them people will naturally gravitate to you. I don’t know what it is but once you have someone people are magnetized to you and you can’t do anything about it(silly how it works).

    • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.worldOP
      11·
      18 days ago

      Also try this. Pretend you already do have someone and any person you see is just a person. If you do this and stop chasing after them people will naturally gravitate to you. I don’t know what it is but once you have someone people are magnetized to you and you can’t do anything about it(silly how it works).

      Should I also pretend I’m a lot richer than I am, just in case someone wants to marry a rich guy? Should I also pretend I had a lot more dating experience, so people won’t have the chance to read it as a red flag?