I’m already 35, and I don’t think I could get anything at this age, especially in an area with almost no third places, almost nonexistent mental health system, etc.

Yes I know, friends do exist, but it’s just not the same (unless you happen to regularly have sex, cuddle, etc. with your friends).

  • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.worldOP
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    18 days ago

    Also try this. Pretend you already do have someone and any person you see is just a person. If you do this and stop chasing after them people will naturally gravitate to you. I don’t know what it is but once you have someone people are magnetized to you and you can’t do anything about it(silly how it works).

    Should I also pretend I’m a lot richer than I am, just in case someone wants to marry a rich guy? Should I also pretend I had a lot more dating experience, so people won’t have the chance to read it as a red flag?