• Soup@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    But was he sending unsolicited dick pics or just saying hi? Because if it was the first one I got some news for you, and that news would be about him not being a good guy just because you didn’t have any problems.

    If he was just saying hi…why did you respond to a comment about specifically unsolicited dick pics?

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      3 days ago

      So often the real thing is other men don’t know how objectifying and creepy their womanizing friends are, because they aren’t the target. They don’t see the behavior, often because they don’t want to, so its easy to ignore.

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        3 days ago

        This is where I just don’t get it. Like, as a hevaily privileged dude, I just don’t see how you can watch something like this and not go “wow, that was wildly inappropriate.”

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      2 days ago

      That was the perfect question to clarify the divide between okay or not, I can’t recall if they were unsolicited or not with certainty. I’m pretty sure they were not because I would’ve been upset and confronted him and I would probably remember the tension of the moment.

      I’m almost sure these were people he initiated conversation with already, with a, “damn girl you look good” type of thing.