Basically same.

I’ve completely wiped out my moustache and beard for various people who enjoy kissing me, but not the facial hair.

Some people like the scratch, others don’t, others don’t really have a strong preference either way, so long as they don’t have to go through a mane and end up with a mouthful of hair.

Just… do that both ways, for ‘kissable’ body parts, per preference of the ‘kisser’, and its fine?

This seems very not complicated to me.