If it helps comfort you, I’m an enby, phenotypically male, bald as a cue ball, and my natural testosterone is so high I’m practically a teen despite actually being three times older. I am and always have been left AF and a fierce supporter of human rights, including bodily autonomy. I had an incident earlier in life which led to my testosterone temporarily dipping by about half for a few months and nothing about my behavior or beliefs significantly changed. I did nap more but that might have been coincidental. That’s about it.

I think most people like the guys you mentioned are just assholes regardless of their testosterone levels.