• Luke@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    You’re not wrong, and I agree that there’s value in distinguishing between those ideas. I’ve just been around a lot of kinky people who insist there’s no difference in the words, so maybe there’s a language shift going on.

    • fuckgod@feddit.online
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      1 day ago

      @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org

      You know what, I don’t think I knew the distiction before. I was just making a drive-by “lol” type of offhand comment.

      Never thought about it that specifically. I will try to be conscious of word choice now.