I’m usually not that talkative because I can’t keep up with conversations, I’m just naturally awkward lol. and I relate, I have no real friends IRL and when I try to talk about it (online ofc), people usually tell me “why don’t you learn social skills like normal people” I TRIED for years and nothing came out, every single time it ended in a disaster that made me more shut-in. and regarding transidentity, as time passes, I just think that their (my family’s, but also that of most people around me) model is ridiculous and a laughing stock. you’re expected to conform to norms (gender-wise, but not only) that are imposed and feel nothing like you just because some people can’t take identities that are too different or “complicated”. I hope it’ll be better when I move out but I guess it won’t change much, I’ll still have huge problems and no one to rely on or bond with. but for DMs, sure :>

I usually don’t like giving out personal information too, but I guess lemmy’s still better than any mainstream/data-harvesting platform like reddit, I’d like to make it one of the only spaces where I can express myself and that’s partly why I created an account on this instance lol

it does. I’ll be honest, nobody usually comes and asks to talk to me so I instantly assume that if someone wants to, then they must want something from me, IYKWIM

I already have an account

too accurate (also remilia :D)