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Cake day: November 13th, 2023

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  • I often wondered about this behavior. Every so often I would see someone go to their car in a parking lot, sit down in the driver’s seat and just… go nowhere. Engine is running, music is on, driver has a 1000-yard stare. It’s so far removed from my own experience - I never do this - that for the longest time, I couldn’t wrap my head around it. Somehow, the phrase ‘after a long day’ made it click. So thanks, OP.

    Apartment living also showed me that some people just hang out alone in the car instead of in the apartment. That I can understand as some units can be downright claustrophobic if you have a big family. Want privacy? Get a car payment I guess. :(








  • Do the action the way you think they would.

    Wait. Are you suggesting that I just role-play or “play pretend” my way out of distraction by just pretending I’m someone else?

    You son of a bitch, I’m in.

    You might have executive dysfunction but Hannibal Lecter sure doesn’t.

    I mean, he’s got other problems though. This idea has the right spirit but I’m not trading my cards in for that.




  • I’m the same way, except my body insists upon going to sleep at 10PM. I can push past that, but insomnia awaits me after midnight.

    I can’t explain what the underlying mechanism is, only that your brain and body just function differently in conjunction with your circadian rhythm. Provided you have a good rhythm, that is (not all neurodivergent types have that). In the worst cases, like dementia patients, this is called ‘sundowning’ and is a real shit-show. For high-functioning types, it’s where your body prepares for sleep and your brain shifts gears.

    As for what that has to do with ADHD, I’m not sure - it’s probably been studied. My best guess is that melatonin helps, and maybe the brain is more receptive to dopamine at night? You may have fewer environmental distractions at night too; I know I do.




  • We have some monstrously large hurdles to clear in this regard. What’s working against a general strike:

    • No social safety net for housing or medical until you’re below the poverty line for a tax year
    • Bankruptcy, poor credit, limits future employment options (e.g. background checks)
    • Most industries are not unionized, so your job can easily be filled in your absence
    • Really high unemployment right now for skilled sectors like IT
    • A lot of people are paycheck-to-paycheck thanks to a host of factors like high rent

    To say nothing of all the illegal shit government and private business will do to end and/or prevent a strike.

    It’s not impossible, but it does mean that any reasonable person would like to know that millions upon millions of others will be striking alongside them. Support networks for unemployed strikers along with strategies to deal with scabs would be a good start, too.