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  • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneToxic positivity rule
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    21 days ago

    The discords I’m in barely even contains gamers. Most of them are local trans spaces. Would it surprise you if I told you that I barely play video games with the people I’ve met on discord, and mostly spend time with them by meeting up in-person?

    Dating apps have shitty incentives because they have a profit motive, and they don’t earn money from you finding people, but from keeping you on the app and maybe even making you desperate. Although hookup apps still work fine I suppose

    Then there’s the whole problem of how dating apps work with swiping and superficial judging of people



  • For whats it’s worth, I’m also trans, and I don’t use dating apps. Everyone I met that I got involved with sexually or romantically has been either through making friends on discord or meeting friends of friends

    Dating apps have a lot of shitty incentives, I won’t go into the details right now, but there’s a lot to dislike about them

    There’s other places to meet people than work or clubs







  • Because corporations are not democratic

    Sure, we have democratic political systems, but the economic systems are very much not. Since when can you vote un your workplace? It your boss tells you to do something, you do it, or risk losing your livelihood, the thing that you depend upon for survival

    That’s not very democratic