To those that “Humpf, don’t care, my data dies with me”, PLEASE remember the significant people in your life will have to deal with admin stuff after your death. And it’s on you to make that process a misery or not for them.

Maybe make sure they have at least access to whatever’s needed to deal with stuff after your demise?

If you don’t have friends and family or hate all humans, don’t mind me of course.

XMPP with prosody is good once you’ve figured out the modules you need.

Unfortunately, I had to quit a few years back as there was no reliable iOS client. Long story short: notifications were never working as expected on that plateform.

Matrix.org is overkill for my needs, but at least notifications work accross the board 👍