yeee I knoow, but in my corner of the world 90% of non-terminally online population will have a “ew, pervert” reaction to any queerness. Half of them will change their mind to “I guess its not bad” after you talk to them for a while, but this shit is tiring yo. Local gay scene is also very opinionated about how I don’t fit there.
obviously painting with a wide brush there’s plenty of cool people, just not raring to meet the non-cool ones
Vampire fireman wouldn’t be able to enter a house if it was on fire, why would police be different