I have changed my mind from online forum discussions.

I changed my stances on policies and politics based on being informed of facts and data. I’ve changed how I detect logical fallacies. I’ve changed where I stand on transit systems and how government can support communities based on arguments centered around what it means to even have government.

I’ve changed my perspectives on liberty and libertarianism. In several cases I went and read books suggested by other posters which changed my perspectives. (A Libertarian Walked into a Bear is a great one).

I’ve read research data and articles people post to support their claims and positions. I’ve read articles from sources that I wouldn’t normally read to debate someone’s claims.

Yes, much of the internet is full of people making fire and forget posts or won’t do any self reflection to allow for their own growth, but how is that any different from the physical world? Learning and growing is hard. Allowing your held beliefs to be actually challenged is even harder. It takes being humble and recognizing that you might be wrong, even about things you’ve known your whole life.

If the claims are supported by evidence, then they’ll stand even in the face of human subbirness and small mindedness, but if the evidence is weak then don’t expect it to really gain traction. If they counter arguments you get are still stronger then your arguments framework, then get better evidence or actually be honest and look at your own position as well. I’ve had that one happen too. I posted a position online, got shot down, and after reflecting I found I was wrong. It happens. That’s part of being human.