Edit… Btw I’m an adult, remember that Steve Carrell movie? Yeah, close to that.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Because you are in the middle of nowhere? There are so many people in the world, I cannot imagine nobody is into you. Above I see you say something about “people like you” but you seem to be able to communicate well and keep your cool, that puts you ahead of a lot of guys.

    If you are around 40, it’s a pretty good age for looking for a partner. A lot of movement in the market, for lack of a better term.

    If you want to hook up, get out there and talk to people. If you literally just want sex and not relationship, I can guarantee you that somewhere someone will be thrilled to break you in, no question. Anything you can imagine, someone gets off on it.

    If you want a whole different life and sex is just part of what you are dissatisfied with, that is up to you to change - the point of power is always in the now. It doesn’t matter who you were, and while there are outside forces, you can do a lot to change your own life.

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      4 months ago

      Thanks for your reply. That’s the problem though. Is up to ME. I’m nothing special and damaged according to society standards, plus useless, again, according to society. Women don’t want men like me.

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        4 months ago

        I hope, you don’t think the same way, as you perceive society to think. Self love is more valuable than sex.