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    7 months ago

    Well for one thing, that’s absolutely not true. I know cis men that do drag shows. Men that are part of femboy culture are doing a gender we call femboy.

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      7 months ago

      If they’re trans in denial they aren’t really cis, they’re dressing and acting as women, which shows their gender incongruences, same with “femboys”. Cis people don’t have the desire to be pretty, dress as a woman, act as a woman, talk with a womanly voice, to have boobs, etc.

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        I am cis, yet I used to wear women’s jeans because my ass is glorious, and back in my day they just didn’t make form flattering clothes for men. Wore foundation and a little make up to help boost my self esteem and hide my scars, and enhance my natural beauty, and acted “as a woman” because I was already androgynous as fuck, and I had a lot of fun watching people get mindfucked and perplexed when they found out I was a non gender conforming mechanic.

        There are many reasons to wear women’s clothes, you don’t get to invalidate everyone else because you think everyone who has enjoyed some things from “the other side of the fence” is trans, in denial and you are the only one who knows better and can save them.

        That is some real “white savior” grade bullshit, mate.

        Glad you’re getting yeeted.