it’s probably too late but being ace doesn’t mean you can’t have sexual attraction depending on where you fall on the spectrum and someone who is ace and doesn’t enjoy sex might have a fully active libido. I’m a demi/grey ace and i honestly get a little tired of this weird thing that has happened where ace is just synonymous with someone who just doesn’t ever have or think about sex ever. It really flattens the experience…though to be fair it’s not like it’s been talked about in the community a lot. Feels like gatekeepers have won in that regard. But anyway, as for the original post I’m honestly pretty inbetween, some days I’m a lot more into my sexuality than others, and depending on the situation and person my sexual attraction (not to be confused with libido) might kick in at the most random of times.
it’s probably too late but being ace doesn’t mean you can’t have sexual attraction depending on where you fall on the spectrum and someone who is ace and doesn’t enjoy sex might have a fully active libido. I’m a demi/grey ace and i honestly get a little tired of this weird thing that has happened where ace is just synonymous with someone who just doesn’t ever have or think about sex ever. It really flattens the experience…though to be fair it’s not like it’s been talked about in the community a lot. Feels like gatekeepers have won in that regard. But anyway, as for the original post I’m honestly pretty inbetween, some days I’m a lot more into my sexuality than others, and depending on the situation and person my sexual attraction (not to be confused with libido) might kick in at the most random of times.