• Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    2 days ago

    Those are still covered under bisexual though. Technically, if you’re a woman attracted to nonbinary people, you’re heterosexual.

    And this is why we invented new and better words.

    • rockSlayer@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      edit-2
      2 days ago

      My understanding is that bisexuals select all partners from both sexes and pansexuals select all partners from all genders

      • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        6
        ·
        2 days ago

        That understanding is wrong.

        Bisexual means “homo and hetero sexual”. So, “attracted to my own gender and not-my-own gender”. Thats the classical definition.

        And then people who didn’t understand that, invented the world pansexual to mean exactly the same thing.

        • rockSlayer@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          2 days ago

          Do you have a resource to confirm what you’re saying? Because homosexual means same sex and heterosexual is opposite sex. Bisexual would be both sexes by that reasoning

            • rockSlayer@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              1
              ·
              1 day ago

              Your snarky comment about better understanding bisexuality and pansexuality does very little for my actual request for resources.

                • rockSlayer@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  ·
                  1 day ago

                  You’re getting too caught up in the dictionary definition of hetero-. Yes I misspoke about what heterosexual means and was wrong about that, but that’s not the core of my misunderstanding. I’m asking for resources pertaining to the differences between pansexuality and bisexuality. I want resources that dispell my previous notion that bisexuality is about sex whilst pansexuality is about gender.

                  • Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone
                    link
                    fedilink
                    English
                    arrow-up
                    2
                    ·
                    11 hours ago

                    Will you be satisfied if I, a nonbinary bisexual tell you that there practically is no difference with the only one that sometimes gets stated being that bisexuals often have some sort of preference in their partner’s gender whilst pansexuals are mostly unpreferential?

                    Most sexuality and gender labels are just some shit that someone thought describes them well enough to get a name. In reality almost all of them fall under some umbrella terms like bisexual or trans. I could technically map out my identity in detail but because I just don’t give a shit I just went with the broadest labels I could identify with without it becoming too misleading, which is why I don’t usually just say that I am trans but nonbinary instead.