• starbreaker@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    To allistic people, everything on this list is insulting behavior that will offend them (except not wanting to eat certain foods).

    Yeah, people who are used to playing and winning dominance games tend to get upset when other people aren’t willing to play and have the temerity to show it. Tough shit. If I want somebody to dominate me, that’s my wife’s exclusive prerogative.

    I don’t expect you to be OK with me refusing to knuckle under when you play dominance games with me. But your feelings are of no greater importance to me than mine are to you. You are my equal at best. Do not try my patience. It is not my greatest virtue.

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      1 year ago

      I’m really struggled with figuring out how anything on that list has anything to do with “dominance”.

    • 1984@lemmy.today
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      1 year ago

      I just told you it’s not about dominance or authority, but sure, you probably think it is, since your response is immature and ridiculous.

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        1 year ago

        I just told you it’s not about dominance or authority, but sure, you probably think it is, since your response is immature and ridiculous.

        Yes, I read your opinion. I don’t agree with it, and you’ve done nothing to persuade me that I should let your opinion overrule my judgment. Dismissing my response is “immature and ridiculous” doesn’t make your case more compelling.

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          1 year ago

          He’s trying to play one of those dominance or authority games.

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      1 year ago

      Eh, these kind of people are always throwing tantrum no matter agreed or refused playing their dominance games, i personally try to avoid such people, filter out negativity and only keep positivity, also i relate strongly to your comment