Posting this here as I feel like similar things are happening in open source projects we like to host.

  • anyhow2503@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Call me a coward but I can’t blame someone for not having the strength to keep that up. Especially if it causes friction with your coworkers who you have to interact with every day.

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      2 days ago

      You’re not a coward, that comment is horrible advice.

      It’s good for “oh I oughtta…!” online, but in real life there are significantly more professional/adult ways of solving the problem than asking semi-rhetorical questions that barely make sense in the hopes of guiding someone toward the desired outcome. Please don’t actually do that.

      Asking “what does the employee handbook say about X??” isn’t a “gotcha.” You can literally go look, then tell us.

      It’s ok to ask not to be recorded in a small meeting. You don’t need to bring up your unfamiliarity with the employee handbook.