I’m already 35, and I don’t think I could get anything at this age, especially in an area with almost no third places, almost nonexistent mental health system, etc.
Yes I know, friends do exist, but it’s just not the same (unless you happen to regularly have sex, cuddle, etc. with your friends).
If your Nd and the commute is an hour away, you’re already exhausted and in no functioning to attempt to meet. Most ask where you are from and if you’re not local, your ostriched