“You’re not being bullied, it’s the way your brain perceives it. Not everyone is bullying you.” That’s what my family used to say to me all the time whenever I told them I was being bullied. And it was true that they bullied me. The teachers yelled at me and found every possible way to punish me, the kids called me names, avoided me, and called me a disgusting creep, spread rumors about me, and very few students liked me.
I’d say, though not everyone bullied me, a great deal of them did and it wasn’t just how my brain perceived it. That’s bullying to anyone, autistic or not.
I honestly think autistic people are either A) more likely to notice all facets of and attempts at bullying, or B) note paying any sttention to the bullies at all. Never is it a case of perceiving it worse than it actuslly is. Also, particularly cruel for a NT to tell an autistic person that, because they have no idea how badly bullied ND people are.