I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
You know how there is this trope of people with little power in their lives abusing service industry workers? I feel like the behavior you describe is kind of like that. People go online and be way ruder than they would be irl, because they can. They can’t empathize with the person on the other side, or they don’t care and are happy to have an outlet without consequences.
I mostly assume replies are not actually to me, they are just people who want to hear themselves talk. Makes it a bit less frustrating.