• Contramuffin@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Pro tip: don’t. It’ll make you feel worse than if you just isolated yourself.

    The incentive structure of dating apps is completely twisted and makes you feel like every part of yourself is getting commodified and ranked.

    Find some social groups or clubs and go hang out there. You’ll have a much better time. Many people don’t mind if you aren’t comfortable with communicating, just being present is a positive in their book.