I fully agree when it comes to uh, pushin the cushion.
However, with a less uh, rotund rear… you just don’t slap as hard, if its a uh, friendly greeting.
But(t), since you’re apparently already thinking with your pants off:
One position that works much, much better with a uh, more modest posterior, is prone-boning, ie, reciever lies flat on their stomach, legs straight, inserter mounts on top, and can either be on their knees and leaning back, or basically just lying on top of them, in case you’re a fan of … an actively loving weighted blanket.
(Theoretically you could flip over that sandwich as well, if the reciever enjoys having their neck or face or chestticles or… love button / joystick grasped, though I can’t say I’ve tried that in a good while)
Or, lie on your back, legs basically straight up, possibly with a pillow under the small of your back, right at the edge of a bed.
(Also, the sort of… standing in the shower, taken from the rear, can be a lot easier to do, presuming the relative heights of the two work for that…)
(But(t) if they don’t… well, in my experience the more delicate derrière havers tend to just be lighter overall.)
(So, arms hooked around the partners neck, legs clasped around their waist, hold on, and enjoy the ride.)
With all of these, if the rod-bearer is capable of being… somewhere between delicate and precise, listen to feedback… well, you can get to know someone a bit deeper that way, if there’s less … softbody physics to deform.
But yes, its important to not have a jackhammer as a lover, when one has a more slender figure, as the… bone on bone impacts can be pretty painful.
Further, to aid you in any future research you may choose to pursue:
I fully agree when it comes to uh, pushin the cushion.
However, with a less uh, rotund rear… you just don’t slap as hard, if its a uh, friendly greeting.
But(t), since you’re apparently already thinking with your pants off:
One position that works much, much better with a uh, more modest posterior, is prone-boning, ie, reciever lies flat on their stomach, legs straight, inserter mounts on top, and can either be on their knees and leaning back, or basically just lying on top of them, in case you’re a fan of … an actively loving weighted blanket.
(Theoretically you could flip over that sandwich as well, if the reciever enjoys having their neck or face or chestticles or… love button / joystick grasped, though I can’t say I’ve tried that in a good while)
Or, lie on your back, legs basically straight up, possibly with a pillow under the small of your back, right at the edge of a bed.
(Also, the sort of… standing in the shower, taken from the rear, can be a lot easier to do, presuming the relative heights of the two work for that…)
(But(t) if they don’t… well, in my experience the more delicate derrière havers tend to just be lighter overall.)
(So, arms hooked around the partners neck, legs clasped around their waist, hold on, and enjoy the ride.)
With all of these, if the rod-bearer is capable of being… somewhere between delicate and precise, listen to feedback… well, you can get to know someone a bit deeper that way, if there’s less … softbody physics to deform.
But yes, its important to not have a jackhammer as a lover, when one has a more slender figure, as the… bone on bone impacts can be pretty painful.
Further, to aid you in any future research you may choose to pursue:
https://store.steampowered.com/app/3231090/Amarillos_Butt_Slapper/
This is a thing that exists, and is free.
EDIT: Revised with more anecdotal research results.
LMAO and they say art is dead