What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner’s attention?

  • putoelquelolea@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    It’s rude for spouses to have a private conversation? Would whispering be better? Would it be better if they hid in a cupboard where no one could see them?

    • Kepabar@startrek.website
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      1 year ago

      Yes, it’s generally considered rude to switch languages specifically to hide your conversation.

      It’s because most will assume you are doing it to talk shit.

      • putoelquelolea@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        Sure, if people suddenly switched languages and then laughed in my face, I would feel bad.

        But if it’s like the other comments in this post, and it’s a couple having a quick word about a private matter, I wouldn’t mind. It’s not like I should be a part of that conversation

    • Drusas@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      It is rude to intentionally speak in a language that the people around you don’t understand (especially if you’re doing so specifically because they don’t understand it), yes.