LadyButterflyshe/her@lazysoci.al to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 28 days agoPeople don't get itlazysoci.alimagemessage-square52fedilinkarrow-up1730arrow-down125
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minus-squareLogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up37·27 days ago it’s an act of service towards someone else and thus easier to motivate me than something that’s for myself This is so spot on. I drag my feet so much doing things I need for myself, but if its for someone else its so much easier.
minus-squareplyth@feddit.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·27 days ago things I need for myself How much has ADHD to do with the concept of self? Is it unknown what the self wants or is it conditioned to be suppressed?
minus-square200ok@lemmy.worldcakelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·26 days agoIt’s that I’m only disappointing myself.
minus-squareplyth@feddit.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·26 days agoDo you disappoint yourself or just your expectations? What if your self doesn’t want to do what needs to be done?
This is so spot on. I drag my feet so much doing things I need for myself, but if its for someone else its so much easier.
How much has ADHD to do with the concept of self?
Is it unknown what the self wants or is it conditioned to be suppressed?
It’s that I’m only disappointing myself.
Do you disappoint yourself or just your expectations? What if your self doesn’t want to do what needs to be done?