• LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz
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    4 days ago

    it’s an act of service towards someone else and thus easier to motivate me than something that’s for myself

    This is so spot on. I drag my feet so much doing things I need for myself, but if its for someone else its so much easier.

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      3 days ago

      things I need for myself

      How much has ADHD to do with the concept of self?

      Is it unknown what the self wants or is it conditioned to be suppressed?

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          3 days ago

          Do you disappoint yourself or just your expectations? What if your self doesn’t want to do what needs to be done?