• RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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    9 days ago

    Why do I hate crowds and loud noises but love to dance in a big happy, sweaty crowd with loud music?

    Because when you are dancing your mind does not think it needs to interact with the crowd around you whereas normally your brain is looking for those requiring your input

    • confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      9 days ago

      This seems to over simplify the complex feelings I have in both those situations and does not quite fully resonate with me. I can sit with this and over analyze it but I choose not to because there isn’t much need to for me.

      I don’t always need an explanation for why I am enjoying living in the moment, what’s important is that I am living in the moment. Those are the memories that are truly important to me because I get to enjoy them for myself later on my own time.